Monday, August 27, 2012

Be aware of own decision first...!!

What kind of decision we could make... (Worth reading)

suppose a group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused. Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track.

The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange. You can make the train change its course to the disused track and save most of the kids.
 However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way?

Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make...
Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child. You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally. But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was. This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.

The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens. If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track...

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

"Remember that what's right isn't always popular and what's popular isn't always right."

Everybody makes mistakes; that's why they put erasers on pencils...

Decisions revert back in Reality....

if you can't solve it, it isn't the problem-it's reality. & sometimes reality is the hardest thing to understand, & the thing that takes the longest to realize. But once it hits you in the face, you'll never forget it. It will always be there in your memories and sometimes that is the best way to look at it.
So, whenever you get tensed regarding your decisions and its after effects, just think ones about its merits to boost up your confidence.
The lines in the pic are as practical as the sex desire in a teenager, but the perception is not clear in our minds regarding our own capability....

Thursday, August 23, 2012

LOVE COMES WITH RISK.....

Not everyone that is in a relationship is receiving the actual love that they deserve. We all deserve a love that is willing to risk everything for us. Sometimes we may be the one preventing ourselves from receiving the love we deserve, because when we expect something to be given to us, we have to first be willing to give it away.

Do you risk everything for the people that you truly love? Do you go against the grain, and do everything to fight for the happiness of the ones you love, or do you just sit back, and never do anything but expect for the love given to you to be perfect?

Do the things that you want others to do with you. Be there to comfort, and to encourage others in their times of need, and it will surely be returned to you when you are in need. Love with all of yourself, and you will ultimately receive a love that is willing to risk it all for you as well.

UPLIFTMENT OF MENTAL EMOTIONS....


Hey you!!!.

Yes you. The one reading this. Think you're too fat? Too skinny? What about too tall, short, ugly, worthless, or anything else along those lines?
Well guess what.
I think you all are beautiful. I think you all deserve to wake up with a smile on your face, and go to bed with a smile on your face. You all deserve happiness.
Screw the boy that broke your heart, and **** the girl that messed with your feelings. Forget about your parents, and what they say to you. Don't worry about them. Think about your future. How nice it's going to be in 20 years from now, to be laying in a bed with the one you love, and just knowing that you're the one that the other one wants to be with forever. Think about all the success you're going to do, and how many smiles you're going to put on someones face. Think about your future kids, and grand-children. Think about what you are going to do with your life. In 20 years from now, everything that is happening now,
 won't matter at all. You might not remember anything that is happening right now. If you think you have it bad, think about all the things you have in life. Have a roof over your head? Yes, well someone else in this world doesn't. Have clothes on your back? Yeah, well someone else in this world doesn't. You have your friends? There's someone else in the world that doesn't. You still have your life, you have your heart, your eyes, your ears, your legs, your feet, your arms, your hands, and most importantly, you have someone that is going to love you for who you are. You may not know them now, and you may not think that they do, but they do. And they will give up anything, just to be with you. Now, smile because you're always going to have it better than someone else out there.
Don't frown because something happened, that isn't going to matter later in life.♥:))